Image credit: W. Cade Gall in the Washington Post
A friend just sent an article from the Washington Post in which some "fantastic visions of what fashion would look like in the future were published by W. Cade Gall in The Strand Magazine in 1893. The ideas, which were recently featured in The Public Domain Review, are based on the principle that fashion had moved in "waves" over the 19th Century, and would do so in the 20th."
The images are outrageous and the artists' visions did not come to be. Take a look here.
When my brother and I (above) were growing up, we could not wait to go to the Vans shoe store for our new tennis shoes each fall. I would get so upset when they got their first stain. I've been a big fan of Jack Purcell tennis shoes for years, and I still get bummed when they get dirty. So imagine my joy upon reading whowhatwear's tips for keeping white sneakers clean. Yeah!
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I've been listening attentively to the series "Owning It" on Public Radio International. Each story is inspiring, as are the women who are starting businesses out of nothing in sometimes very challenging circumstances. Bravo to these women--from a yoga teacher in Africa to two mothers in Prague making handbags-- and to PRI for covering important topics like this.
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I just read another another brilliant "capsule" wardrobe post from wardrobeoxygen. It's always a good idea to plan your fancy outfit in advance--for an occasion you know is coming up or one that surprises you. Shopping in a panic rarely ends well. So think about putting together your own formal wear capsule wardrobe now.
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Dita Von Teese, today's "paragon of pinup style," has confused me. But I've always appreciated the care she takes to present herself as well-groomed and confident. Her new book, "Her Beauty Mark," just hit the shelves, and I read a bit about her views on beauty in Sunday's Los Angeles Times.
Here is my favorite part of the feature, when Von Teese is asked about her view that "beauty is duty":
"I look at it [beauty] as natural as brushing my teeth. And it doesn't have to talk a lot of time. I can narrow it down to a few little things, like having my lips on, and my hair pulled back in a neat chignon. I choose little things that make me feel better and give me confidence."
What are the "little things" that you regularly do to make you feel your best? These "little things" can make the difference between us having so-so and terrific days.
Go to page 21 in this month's Coastal View News to read my column. I offer tips on how to make shopping for clothing easier and more enjoyable. I've found that I am enjoying myself quite a bit--finding things for me in the process--as I shop for others this holiday season. I'm taking a break from writing this monthly column, but you can still look for Wardrobe Wisdom on my blog and on Facebook.
While I wholeheartedly embrace Thanksgiving for its lack of commercialism and focus on food, I do not embrace crazy shopping on the following day. At the same time, I encourage you to stop by and say "hi" to me at Renaissance Fine Consignment today if you happen to be downtown. It's a lovely store (at 1118 State Street) and I'd love to see you!
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Perusing Etsy's website is something I like to do every once in awhile. I am always blown away by the variety of goods for sale and the incredible talents of so many people. It reminds me of when my husband and I went to the eastern region of Canada one summer: since the winters are long and cold, it seemed everyone we met was a craftsman, making gorgeous stained glass, furniture, or mosaics, to keep themselves busy during those snowbound days.
Just take a look at what's on offer in Esty's skirt section. There is something for everyone, no matter what style/s you prefer. I fancy the skirt above, by LoveAlanaDesigns, though I cannot imagine where I would wear it! Sometimes it's just fun to see what's out there and to dream a bit.
Purse: stylehive.com
Skirt: newyork&company.com
I like this clever post about this fall's trends, which includes boxes to check (or not). It's always your choice whether or not you want to participate in fashion trends. I've learned that some trends (booties) take me awhile to get used to before I want to try them. Others I like right away: fringe!!! What are some trends that you have adopted recently? Or what have you chosen to pass on?
Today I spent an hour at my local Michaels craft store. I keep saying I am not ready for the holidays, but I enjoyed the (artificial) smells of cinnamon and pine, and had fun looking at the decorations. This led me to thoughts of upcoming events and what I would be wearing. The only new, sparkly thing I've added to my wardrobe is a rhinestone necklace. In fact, I got rid of a number of velvet skirts and pants this fall so have fewer holiday clothing options.
Now is a good time to look through your closet and think about special evenings or parties in the next few weeks. What can you wear? What jewelry, shoes, and hair accessories can make your outfits festive? Make a list of what you need and start shopping for those items or asking friends if you can borrow them. Thrift stores and consignment stores have a super selection of sparkly accessories and clothing at the moment.
Men, do you have a suit that fits? A nice dress shirt and shoes? A good belt? If not, get shopping! Last minute, panicked shopping is never a good idea.
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For the past 3 years, I have been looking for black leather booties. I've been picky about what I want regarding the heel height, gap around my ankle, leather versus suede, tassels or no tassles, zipper. . . Finally, I purchased a pair over the summer while I was on vacation. They seemed perfect, and they look fantastic, but they are not comfortable. Today I cut out tiny squares of felt, and, using a glue gun, applied the felt to the area around the zipper that had been causing blisters. If this little fix does not do the trick, it may be time to say "uncle" and begin another search. Sigh.
Go to page 27 in Carpinteria's Coastal View News to read this month's Wardrobe Wisdom column. I write about what I have seen and learned from being in clients' closets over the years. Click on the blue button when you get to this link, and then use the arrows to get to page 27.
It seems new services for styling and shopping are popping up all the time. I am going to describe just three here: Stitch Fix, Trunk Club, and the one I most recently heard about, Lyon and Post. Full disclosure: I have not personally used any of these services.
Stitch Fix: This is one of the first services of its kind that I became aware of. Subscribers fill out a questionnaire about their style and taste, and a box of clothes (hopefully) matching the women's wish list appears when she schedules it. Subscribers only pay for the price of clothing they keep, along with a $20 styling fee each time which can be used toward purchasing clothing. Stitch Fix encourages you to: "Try on and discover styles hand-picked to fit you, your budget and your style."
Two of my friends have used this service. They liked being introduced to new brands and found a couple of items they liked in each box. Their complaints were that they did not always have the same stylist and, possibly because of this, they found the items overall did not suit them; they also said it took from 2-3 weeks to receive their Stitch Fix box.
Trunk Club: This service was originally offered for men, but is for women now as well. My friend Will tried it and loved the clothes he was sent right off the bat. Two of my female co-workers also recently tried Trunk Club. One liked most every item she was sent but found the price point to beyond her budget. My other co-worker complained about the clothing not really being "her" but appreciated the consistency of having the same stylist each time. She felt the stylist's grasp on her style grew with each trunk. Trunk Club's encourages users to: "Take 10 days to try everything on, and then keep what you like and send
the rest back. Shipping is free both ways, and you can request a new
trunk any time you'd like." My criticism of Trunk Club is that its inventory is limited to Nordstrom's inventory, since it is operated by this store.
Lyon + Post: This service appeals to those who want clothing that is "curated by industry insiders.
Our fashion director has spent her career hand-selecting pieces for A-list celebs. Now she's doing it exclusively for you." It takes some patience to crack the site, and I do not know anyone who has used this service yet. Somehow, I think this will be a pricey option!
Each of these services is designed for people who want new clothes but don't want to shop. Remember that some stores, such as Nordstrom, have stylists on site. You are not charged for their service and are under no obligation to make purchases. You should also feel free to ask salespeople to keep an eye out for clothes that suit you. They will happily contact you when these items come in. Some will also gladly help you put together outfits. I did this all the time when I worked in boutiques. It was my favorite aspect of the job!
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My oldest daughter is a high school junior and so there is a lot of college talk around our house these days. We discuss the importance of knowing what she is looking for after graduation. What is equally important is knowing what she does not want in a college. The process of narrowing down a list of likes and dislikes will save us a lot of time visiting schools.
Are there some fabrics or colors you simply do not like? I've learned that I like collarless silk blouses best. So while I can appreciate different tops, I know I will not enjoy them in the long term so I don't waste time considering them or trying them on.
Make a list of things you love about your current clothes and what you don't. Get rid of clothing that matches up with the descriptions on your "don't" list, and use the other list to guide you to wiser shopping.
I found myself at Ulta Beauty in Goleta, California for several hours the other day. My youngest daughter is enamored with this store, and likes to go up and down the aisles, examining the merchandise, oohing and aahing over new discoveries. We are always impressed by the helpful, friendly, and non-pushy women who work there. One was especially patient when my daughter was looking for just the right shade of lipstick.
During the lipstick quest, I tried on an eyeliner a friend had suggested for me. The color was lovely and it went on smoothly. However, after the second hour of being in the store, I noticed that it had smudged and faded. Therefore, I did not make the purchase.
This led me to think about how we often shop. When it comes to shoes, I feel like most of us try them on in the store, walk around a bit, then wear them at home before committing. But when it comes to clothing, we just try it on briefly, then wear it out, and only later realize it isn't really "us" doesn't fit well, go with much, etc. I am not suggesting you wear an item around the store for two hours since no one has that kind of time and I am not sure the salespeople would approve. Yet I do suggest wearing the item around your home for a good period of time before you decide to keep it. And if you have some time, by all means wear it around the store for a bit. You may just save yourself from making unwise purchases.
Black top, H & M Navy tank, Cotton On
I've written before about my quest for the perfect white t-shirt, and how, when you find that perfect basic, buy more than one. I followed my own advice recently and walked away with 3 ideal tops for less than $50.00
My secret is the "basic" line at H & M. I adore their elbow-length sleeve scoop neck knit tops and have them in almost every color. They wash well and always look smart. A friend just discovered a similarly ideal knit top at Cotton On, whose price is under $20. So don't be snooty about tops that can be workhorses in your wardrobe. They don't need to be costly so seek them out in stores geared for young folks. Next stop, Forever 21 (as long as I wear earplugs!).
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Today I picked up a splendid silk blouse for a mere 25.00 at Jessica Consignment in Santa Barbara, thanks to my alert friend. She was in Jessica yesterday, noticed the blouse--made by one of my favorite labels and in my size-- and put it on hold. Shannon said it just "looked like me" and she was right. It's perfect for my style and my budget!
You can always get to know salespeople in stores you frequent and ask them keep an eye out for things on your wardrobe shopping list. Savvy salespeople will call you when they see a suitable item. Many of my friends ask me to be on the lookout for certain garments and accessories when I am shopping, and I do. Be sure to entrust your (very short) list to friends who like to shop and are familiar with your style and budget. And tell them you will do the same for them. Shopping is serious business so invite others to be on your shopping team.
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When my older daughter asked me what jobs I have had over the years, my list was long and varied. I scooped ice cream, worked at a dry cleaners, was a gofer for a jeweler, taught English, was a salesperson in many clothing stores, waited tables. . . The job I have never had, in nearly 35 years of working, is a desk job. Now I learn that more and more people are finding it healthier to not sit at their desks, and are instead bouncing on large balls, using a treadmill while they use their computers, or are using stand up desks. This trend reminds me an amusing account by A. J. Jacobs of his time writing while walking on a treadmill in his book Drop Dead Healthy: One Man's Humble Quest for Bodily Perfection (2012). Of course many are re-thinking their wardrobes for this new way of work. Go here to read an article on this topic.
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A couple of weeks ago I had dinner with some folks from Connecticut. They commented on our warm weather and how strange it must be to live in a place where it is summer year-round. I've heard this before from other people who were not raised in southern California, and I can understand what they mean. Still, there is a certain smell, a particular feel in the air in September that is different from a summer day. Of course I cannot describe this feeling adequately and just end up telling people that I really enjoy the sunshine.
Even though I do love warm weather, these unusually hot weeks we have been experiencing in Santa Barbara are getting old. Imagine for a minute that you too work in a non-air conditioned junior high school library. Now imagine hundreds of young, hormonal students coming in and out of the library each day. I am not painting an invitingly fragrant picture am I?
These hot, stuffy days make it challenging to figure out what to wear that is fall-ish but won't make me wither. Fortunately, I can turn to wardrobeoxygen.com for these helpful suggestions:
Simple switches to your wardrobe can offer maximum impact without changing your comfort level. Darker washes of denim, closed-toed shoes, brown and black leather shoes and accessories, switching pink lipstick for a dark berry, adding some lowlights to your hair, choosing darker colors and textured fabrics like suede and calf hair, adding a scarf or heavier/more solid of jewelry. Fall fashion is far more than cable knit and tweed; it’s easy to incorporate elements of this season’s fashion trends and still be comfortable no matter your environment.
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My co-worker and I both love clothes. We share our shopping frustrations and victories, our favorite stores, what works for us and doesn't, and the latest trends (which we often try to skip). How we differ is our body type: She is a tall, leggy 5' 9" while I am a petite, long-waisted 5' 4." I have learned a great deal about shopping for a tall person from her, and have a website to recommend: Long Tall Sally. The clothes on this site are chic, reasonably priced, and good quality. Moreover, they offer free shipping and free returns!
In this month's Coastal View News column (page 20), I make suggestions for dressy outfits to have on hand to avoid a wardrobe crisis. I also talk about costume parties, which intimidate me.
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My boss is a big fan of belts. And her belt must match her shoes though she is not really a fussy dresser in general. I have lost track of how many belts she has, but I do know one thing: She always looks put together. Belts complete an outfit and make you look like you know what you are doing style-wise.
Suspenders are an entirely different matter: For one thing, they are mostly for men. For another, it takes courage and sartorial flare to pull off suspenders. What a recent Freakonomics episode brought to light is the physics of belts versus suspenders, and how belts do not do the one job they are asked to do--hold up our pants. I liked learning what turned a physics professor from a belt guy into a suspender guy:
"This [a belt] basically works the same way as a tourniquet. You know, you strap it on, pull it tight, and hope your pants don’t fall down. But the physics of a belt — it pushes in, and hopes that it creates enough friction to have your pants not fall down. Well, that didn’t make sense. Here I was talking to my students about physics, and what direction gravity was pulling and moving things, and here I was wearing a belt. And I thought about it a little bit, and I was like, well, wait a minute. I need something to pull up, if gravity is pulling down."
This episode is full of fascinating factoids about belts, as well as a brief history of pants, and I urge you to follow the link above to give it a listen or a perusal.
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A friend of mine has a daughter getting married, and she asked me about bridesmaids' dresses. I had a tiny wedding with only a maid of honor, but I hold some strong opinions about wedding attire having been in several weddings in my 20s. I am a big believer in encouraging bridesmaids to wear dresses of the same or complementary fabrics, and in the style that suits their particular body shape and personal style. These photos from Cosmopolitan magazine (!) support my view.
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I've mentioned before that I have a crush on Marketplace's Kai Ryssdal (above, left). Imagine the thrill I got when I sat next to him for dinner once!
Anyway, his take on fashion and trends always amuses me. I liked listening to his interview with renown perfume nose Rodrigo Flores-Roux (above, right). Learning what Ryssdal's colleagues thought of his new cologne was entertaining and I wish that I had been there to offer my opinion.
Flores-Roux's approach to wearing a scent is bold: "when he [Flores-Roux) goes out, he’ll 'empty the bottle.' Spritzing a perfume cloud and walking through it? He does not approve.
'That’s nonsense, and that’s a waste of money. I want people to wear
perfume and to own it and to express themselves with perfume. Putting it
in the air is a waste of money. You might as well not wear it,' he
explains."
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I sure enjoy listening to podcasts. Friends ask me when I find the time to listen to them, and I answer that I listen to them at the gym, during my morning walks, while I am doing chores at home, gardening, and in the car. Podcasts are great!
One I discovered this week is The Seams. Jackie Lyden, from National Public Radio, hosts this show about fashion and style. I like her decidedly non-insider, unsnooty demeanor and the variety of fashion related topics she explores. I encourage you to give it a listen!
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Somehow I am only now becoming acquainted with fashion observer, writer, and critical commentator Cintra Wilson. Now that I know about her, I am eager to read all of her books, especially her new one: Fear and Clothing. Here is part of a review of the book which made me want to read it right away:
Acting as a kind of fashion anthropologist, she documents and decodes
the sartorial sensibilities of Americans across the country. Our fashion
choices, she argues, contain a riot of visual cues that tell everyone
instantly who we are, where we came from, where we feel we belong, what
we want, where we are going, and how we expect to be treated when we get
there.
I agree with her 100%: What we wear matters.
Read my article on page 26 in this month's Coastal View News. I share an experience working with an old college friend who wanted her outward appearance to mirror her new, upbeat attitude. We both learned a great deal from our time together.
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When I work with clients, I try to determine what styles will be most flattering according to their particular body shape. Since I worked in retail for years and have studied body shapes and fashion for a long time, I think I have a good grasp on what looks best. But as this article points out, what is flattering to one person (even a stylist) can be completely inappropriate to another. Moreover, the person trying all the clothes on may feel a total disconnect between the stylist's perspective and her own. It's a great read!
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For years we have been hearing that the skinny jean style cannot last. Yet this style has had remarkable staying power! Even women who have been reluctant to try skinny jeans (like my mom), are giving them a go. Naturally, just when women are accepting skinny jeans, comes the arrival of flares.
These wide legged jeans bring back sad memories for me. As a curvy elementary school kid, neither Dittos nor Luv-It jeans fit me. I saw all my friends looking so great in their flared pants, and I had to settle for just looking okay in my not-so fashionable ones. Since I am petite, I never thought flares would really be flattering on me anyway (sour grapes?)
But I am slowly getting used to the idea that I might want to introduce a pair of flared jeans into my wardrobe. I plan to follow the always excellent advice of Clinton Kelly to learn how to wear them well. Looking at the vintage ad above, maybe I did not miss out on much with flares the first time around.
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Clinton Kelly's new makeover show will premier next month. I just checked out a preview clip here and have mixed feelings about it. TV programs that are supposed to seem unscripted yet appear rehearsed annoy me. And a program all about how to attract a partner seems so retro to me. Still, I like Clinton Kelly and am hoping to like his new show when I see an entire episode. He definitely knows style and how to dispense good advice.
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If you live in (or near) Orange County, be sure to hit this upcoming sale at one of my favorite consignment stores:
Recycled Rags
THIS SUNDAY * AUGUST 30TH * 9AM- 4PM Be sure to arrive early! The first 25 customers to arrive will receive a coupon good for $5 off any purchase of $25+ to be used on the day of the sale! Get in line before the doors open at 9 and you'll be eligible to win a $100 Gift Certificate(no expiration)! Enjoy refreshments served throughout the day while shopping a stunning selection of designer clothing, shoes and bags for women & men! We hope to see you there! 2731 E. Coast Hwy Corona del Mar, CA 92625 949-675-5553 for more information, please VISIT OUR WEBSITE
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I came across this smart article from Slate.com about traveling in style and want to share it. The author, J. Bryan Lowder is not haughtily insisting that people to dress in fancy clothes when they get on a plane. However, he does suggest that "when traveling by public means, each of us dress 'nicely' or 'respectably' according to our means." He goes on to offer some very practical reasons for dressing well when taking public transportation, along with this sage observation: "When we dress well for travel, we are not only making ourselves look good; we’re also signaling that we are invested in making this shared experience pleasant for everyone around us."
Bravo, Mr. Lowder!
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I've written before about capsule wardrobes, and use this way of organizing my wardrobe when I am packing for trips. (Some great examples of capsule wardrobes are at wardrobeoxygen.com). I have not incorporated the capsule method into my everyday wardrobe though, and I sometimes wonder why. A friend sent me this terrific post from Dallas Moms Blog, which explains the writer's style evolution and how a capsule wardrobe changed her life. The writer links to another blog, Unfancy, where the following advice resonated strongly with me:
When things aren’t adding up, start subtracting. So often, when I’m faced with a problem, my first reaction is to think I need to add something to my life to solve it. Like, if I’m disorganized, I should buy more storage containers. Or, if I’m feeling stressed, I should go shop for a new dress to make myself feel better. When the answer to both of those problems could be to subtract something from my life.
On page 21 of this month's Coastal View News I describe my experience working with a young man on the cusp of a career change. He is in graduate school with an internship and asked for help making his wardrobe align with this new stage in his life.
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Yes, I did go downtown for a bit of Fiesta this week though I don't like crowds. The silver lining was purchasing these sandals by Global Girls. I'd been coveting them for years, but their relatively high price tag kept me from getting them. But in the spirit of Fiesta (I know that's a weak excuse), I finally caved in. They are gorgeous, handmade sandals and support a very worthy cause (see Global Girls goals below).
Our Goals
Establish
a co-op within an underserved community in which we train impoverished
women to develop handicraft skills so that they may produce goods
marketable goods and gain an economic livelihood.
· Artisan Identification
Identify talented artisans who demonstrate need and commitment to work.
· Training and Design Assistance
Provide training in handicraft skills to artisans to achieve the quality of workmanship that Global Girls requires.
· Market Connection
Promote the artisans handicrafts in the US and international markets.
Dropping off a number of bags at the Assistance League in Santa Barbara the other day filled me with joy. I'd been putting in donation bags all summer and was so happy to get them out of my garage. Since I had time to kill, I did a quick perusal of the clothing racks and tried on a couple of darling dresses (from Ann Taylor and White House/Black Market) and a cute top. Six dollars (yes-$6!!!) later, I walked out with a plaid, silk, sleeveless top that I just love. Clothing surprises are everywhere if you just take a bit of time to look.
I like it when clothing plays an important role in a book. This week I picked up the novel Mr. Rosenblum Dreams in English, in which the title character is determined to become a full-fledged English gentleman after leaving his native Germany just before WWII. He relies on a pamphlet given to immigrants called While You Are in England: Helpful Information and Friendly Guidance for Every Refugee, following its instructions to the letter.
Mr. Rosenblum decides that getting a bespoke suit from Savile Row is an important step in his attempt to fully assimilate into (high class) English society. Here is the rich, wonderful description of his experience at Henry Poole on Savile Row:
The store smelled deliciously of cedar wood, and the tailor called him "Sir," measured his small frame without a sneer, and the suit was delivered twelve weeks later, wrapped in crepe paper inside a pearlescent box with the Henry Poole crest emblazoned in gold. His pattern was to be kept in the company vaults alongside those of Churchill, Gladstone,and Prince Albert. When he put on the suit, he felt taller than his five foot three inches, his bald head appeared to shine less and his nose felt, well, less pronounced.
So far, his suit has not helped him achieve one of his goals, but I'm looking forward to seeing him use his "sheer tenacity" to get what he wants.
I've always been a sucker for mystery novels and television programs. My current TV favorite is Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries, from Australia. I adore the complex plots, strong female lead, likeable characters, and beautiful scenery; and I love, love the 1920s costumes, especially those worn by sleuth Phryne Fisher.
Actress Essie Davis provides an excellent description of her character: "I guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the 1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’. She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp."
I
guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones
or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the
1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s
incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who
never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an
advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the
world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’.
She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp. - See more at:
http://tellyspotting.kera.org/2013/07/08/qa-with-essie-davis-star-of-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries/#sthash.L8fvptZ5.dpuf
I
guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones
or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the
1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s
incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who
never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an
advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the
world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’.
She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp. - See more at:
http://tellyspotting.kera.org/2013/07/08/qa-with-essie-davis-star-of-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries/#sthash.L8fvptZ5.dpuf
I
guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones
or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the
1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s
incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who
never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an
advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the
world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’.
She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp. - See more at:
http://tellyspotting.kera.org/2013/07/08/qa-with-essie-davis-star-of-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries/#sthash.L8fvptZ5.dpuf
I
guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones
or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the
1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s
incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who
never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an
advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the
world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’.
She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp. - See more at:
http://tellyspotting.kera.org/2013/07/08/qa-with-essie-davis-star-of-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries/#sthash.L8fvptZ5.dpuf
I
guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones
or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the
1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s
incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who
never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an
advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the
world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’.
She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp. - See more at:
http://tellyspotting.kera.org/2013/07/08/qa-with-essie-davis-star-of-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries/#sthash.L8fvptZ5.dpuf
I
guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones
or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the
1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s
incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who
never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an
advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the
world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’.
She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp. - See more at:
http://tellyspotting.kera.org/2013/07/08/qa-with-essie-davis-star-of-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries/#sthash.L8fvptZ5.dpuf
I
guess Phryne Fisher is the female answer to James Bond, Indiana Jones
or a combination of both. She’s an incredibly independent woman from the
1920’s, who was born in poverty and inherited great wealth. She’s
incredibly skilled, she lives life to the fullest and is a woman who
never wants to get married but loves life and loves men. She’s an
advocate for women’s rights and the rights of the less privileged in the
world and she’s got a knack for sleuthing and finding out ‘whodunit’.
She’s both a mystery and a bit of a romp. - See more at:
http://tellyspotting.kera.org/2013/07/08/qa-with-essie-davis-star-of-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries/#sthash.L8fvptZ5.dpuf
Yesterday my younger daughter and I stopped by De Marcos Fashion Academy, at 120 West Mission Street in Santa Barbara. We were captivated by the original full-length gowns in the store window, and were curious to see what was going on in the Academy. (I'd been in and met Ms. De Marcos once before; go here to read a past blog post.)
This time we learned about the upcoming fashion show in Santa Barbara, on September 5, 2015. I'm looking forward to Santa Barbara Fashion week, and am eager to see the designs by De Marcos' students. I know De Marcos is looking for local businesses to help sponsor this exciting event. For more information, go here.
Journalist K.C. Cole wrote a very thoughtful piece about clothing and feminism in Sunday's Los Angeles Times. Like so many women, Cole wonders if it's okay to go sleeveless if one has less than perfectly toned arms. She asks, "Is bare arms one of those feminist dilemmas? Or is it more a matter of simple vanity versus sweltering heat?" This leads to her thinking that covering up for the rest of one's life is "unacceptable." She lets readers know that fashion's and society's rules are not simple to interpret as a feminist, and that "Feminists want to look good too." I strongly urge you to read the entire column; Cole makes a lot of good points.
Image credit:eBay.com
I gleefully opened the package from eBay the other day, eager to see my purchase in person. Before trying on the lovely, red silk Joie blouse, I inspected it closely. There were no stains or imperfections; it looked like new. When I found that it fit me perfectly, I felt very smug in the knowledge that Joie blouses start at $150.00 retail. I paid less than $30.00!!!
Have I always been an eBay shopper? Decidedly, no. It was only when I began working with an eBay devotee that I began visiting the site regularly. In the past couple of years, I have purchased shoes, running attire for my daughter, and clothing for myself. Only one item did not work out, and I was able to send it back and receive a full refund. But without my co-worker's guidance and tips, I would have floundered.
Here is how to shop like a pro on eBay for clothing and accessories:
1. Search for items using specific words. For example, include the brand name, the style, the size, and the color you are looking for. When I wanted a Joie blouse, I searched under "Joie, blouse, silk, XS." The more specific you are, the better chance of learning whether it exists on eBay.
2. Check the seller's return policy. Make sure that you can return the item for a full refund if it does not fit you well or if it is not the item described by the seller. Some sellers are happy to provide refunds; others are not.
3. If you are serious about bidding on an item, you must check on it often. I am not always diligent and have lost out on certain garments. I like to "watch" items I am interested in but am not ready to bid on. I've also done well simply deciding to "Buy it Now" when the item is something I've really wanted but did not want to play the bidding game for.
4. The old adage, "If it looks too good to be true, it probably is" holds true on eBay. If you notice someone is selling a designer handbag you have been coveting forever, and the price is significantly lower than one you have ever seen, it is most likely a counterfeit. I'm not a huge fan of designer labels so don't spend a lot of time looking for them on eBay. What I do know is that there are many tell-tale signs when something is a fake. Go here to learn about them, and shop wisely with this information.
5. Shop often. I have written before about consignment store shopping and the importance of going often. The same is true for eBay. If someone is not selling something you want today, someone may be next week.
Somehow, in the midst of all the hype surrounding the book Women in Clothes last year,
I missed reading Worn Stories, by Emily Spivak. You can read what the New York Times had to say about it here.
Worn Stories describes itself as a collection of "sartorial memoirs." I found myself flipping through it, choosing what to read by the clothing pictured. I wondered what someone would have to say about a canary yellow Hermes coat; why a person would hold onto a bright blue hoodie sweatshirt; and who wore the little hat with the feather and striped band. I'm so glad I happened to read what Susan Orlean had to say about the dress and pants ensemble that accompanied her memoir. She describes her quest for the perfect uniform, and how over the years, she thinks she has found it, only to start her quest all over again. I think a lot of us can relate to her musings:
"It's a temporary delusion that comes over me with regularity--a belief that by wearing this perfect thing, I will look right and feel good no matter what. When I'm in it, I totally believe I have found my look, my personal style. I understand that fashion, by definition, is a changing thing, and so is one's body. " (My bold font added for emphasis.)
Beauty in Bouzy, France
One simple way to make a decision about a purchase or whether to get rid of something already owned is to ask yourself if it is useful and/or do you find it beautiful? If the answer to either of these questions is no, the decision has been made: Don't buy it or get rid of it.
Do I always follow this advice? No, but I try to. Today I put on my exercise bra--one I have had for years. I used to say that it was unattractive, but it did the job. However, it is no longer doing the job. When my daughter announced that I looked "saggy on top," I realized the bra had to go. Give your wardrobe the once over and ask yourself about your clothing's usefulness and attractiveness. And have a donation bag nearby!
P.S. By far, the best sports bras I have were purchased via Title9. This website offers a variety of bras,workout clothing, and casual clothing. Title9's customer service is superb!
Photo credit: Violeta.com
I'm not sure how long it is going to take for major designers to make plus-size clothing for women. "The industry has done a disservice to themselves by not offering some
of those great choices for the plus-size consumer," says Marshal Cohen,
NPD retail analyst. For now, the industry is foolishly missing the boat, and plus-size women are not pleased. There is hope, however, since some celebrities are making their displeasure known and are getting into the design business.
Go here to listen or read more about this topic on NPR. Included in this piece are some suggestions of where to shop for fashionable clothing in sizes 14 and up. I also think Mango's Violeta line is pretty great.
Photo Credit: Clintonkelly.com
As usual, Clinton Kelly offers expert advice on dressing for your body shape on his website. Go here to learn how to dress your best if you have a round belly; it's one of the body issues I hear about most from my Wardrobe Wisdom clients.
One thing I appreciated about men on the street I observed during my trip was how well their suits fit (not that I was staring!). I so appreciate the time and thought these men took in getting dressed; it's not that hard, guys!
Laurence, Gina, and me in the gardens of Giverny, France.
In this month's Coastal View News column, I describe how packing for a trip can often lead to weeding out one's wardrobe. Go here to read "Packing and Weeding", on page 21.
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